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Happy 33rd birthday to our favorite guy! . To the guy who likes his coffee black, his eggs dippy and loves listening to his movies loudly, with surround sound. To the guy, who I thought was turning 32, again. To the guy who loves chilly mornings and cool evenings. To the guy who works without complaining. To the guy who has only lived in WV a total of 7 years and hit more deer than I have in the 32 years I lived here. To the guy who loves ND football and cheering on the Cubs, even if they have a bad season. To the guy who serves his family and loves us well. We are all so blessed to be the ones who get to live life with you. Thank you for choosing me to be your wife and for the love you have for all of us. ❤️


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Love how @drshellypersad comes alive with my touch... Love how as her body warms up she shuts down her mind and is totally present in her body... it's a joy waking that lust up. It's a joy touching her but more importantly she me every reason to touch her. If your partner is not touching you this way, before blaming your partner ask what you are doing to give them a reason to touch you in this way. #loveher #instalove #lovingwife #sexualblueprint #married #marriedandhappy #marriage101 #funmarriage #bestfriends #osho #relationships #relationshipadvice #loveadvice #relationshiptips #loveisallyouneed #lovefearlessly #loveandsex #sexishealthy #sexualcompatability #sexualconnection #conscioussex #gratitude #nojealousy #loveisreal #lustforlife #sexualsecrets #sexualhealing #sexualdna #tantra


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Tag someone If your man is shutting you out and distancing himself. Or if he’s already made up his mind that it’s over. Then there’s only one thing you can do to get him back for good. You can’t convince him. You can’t beg. You can’t make promises. It will only push him further away. And changing his mind is impossible. ⠀ ⠀ TAP THE LINK ON MY PROFILE PAGE to discover how to trigger emotions deep inside him. Feelings he ALREADY has for you. That will get him to change his own mind from the inside out and have him chasing you and begging YOU for a second chance⠀ ⠀ #marriageisforever #marriagematters #godlywife #marriagehelp #marriageisbeautiful #marriagecoach #strongmarriage #marriage101 #marriagetips #marriagerocks #marriage365 #godlyhusband #prayingwife #marriagequotes #oneflesh #marriageworks #marriagegoals #marriagetip #marriages #relationshipexpert #husbandandwifeforlife #marriagetoday #marriedforlife #marriagelife #marriagewisdom #healthymarriage #relationshipcounselling #relationshiptips #premaritalcounseling #relationshipadvice


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Shout out to the Husbands who don't take there Wives for Granted😍😍 Sometimes it's the little things that makes your Lady happy😊💑👫 #Marriage #marriageequality #marriagelife #marriages #marriagequotes #marriageworks #marriageadvice #marriagerocks #MarriageMatters #marriagetips #marriage365 #marriage101 #marriagematerial #marriagevows #marriagefirst #Marriagevibes #ChangingTheNarrative #LoveMarriageCoffee #❤💍☕MizzThizz


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Happy 25th birthday to the man who makes my world go round! I am so thankful to be able to call you my husband and extra thankful to be able to spend another year with you. This past year has truly been amazing but I am so excited to see what 25 has in store. The kids and I hope you know just how much you mean to us. I L O V E you baby, cheers to another year.😘🎂🍻 . . . #fatherhood #fatherhoodunplugged #25thbirthday #ourlifeinspired #marriagegoals #marriage101 #couples #couplesofinstagram #babyanddaddy #daughterandfather #fatherhoodmatters #dadsofinstagram #insta_family #raisinglittlehumans #fathersunited #ig_parenthood #birthdayboy #25yearsold #familylife #marriedlife #husbandgoals


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It's Monday morning and I have only one question on my mind. What was the absolute sexiest thing your husband did this weekend? I've got a list (which is always nice)!⠀ ⠀ 1️⃣He took care of every. single. meal. we ate. Did I necessarily agree/like all of them? No. But, I did not have to figure it out or decide, so...sexy.⠀ ⠀ 2️⃣He wore grey jeans I bought him at ExpressMen. Enough said.⠀ ⠀ 3️⃣He sensed the oncoming Sunday night meltdown because I accomplished NOTHING all weekend and booked a room at Great Wolf Lodge for him and the girls. I’m going to have 24 hours of time...24 freaking hours. Back off ladies because he is ALL mine.⠀ ⠀ Also, if you are a dad...let me just tell you - Number 3 - Sexiest Dad Move EVER!⠀ ⠀ So...tell me!?!? Sexiest thing your husband did this weekend?⠀ ⠀ #worththework #loveyourspouse #marriageiswork #dateyourspouse #marriagegoals #beating50percent #istilldo #marriedwithkids #blendedfamily #couplegoals #growthmindset #coupleadventures #adventuretogether #strongmarriage #happilymarried #marriagetips #marriage101 #luckyinlove #husbandapproved #growingoldtogether #howtonotgetdivorced #staymarried #secondmarriage #likeyourhusband #likeyourhusbandfounder #businesspartners #lovehimlots


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🎙 NEW EPISODE 🎙 CONFLICT RESOLUTION: THE SECRET TO FIGHTING WELL!” • Getting to resolution after an argument is always challenging in a relationship, so in today’s episode (EP:58), I am sharing tips and strategies that will help you get to resolving conflict quickly, while learning how to fight well! • bit.ly/thewifewisdompodcast” • #wifewisdom #wifetribe #wifewisdompodcast #wifematerial #wifewarrior #wifenation #wifecoach #wifetips #wifeintraining #podcast #newepisode #marriagepodcast #marriage101 #marriagetips #conflictresolution #fightingwell #forgivenessiskey #couplescounseling #coupleshelp #marriagegoals #marriagebootcamp


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🎙 NEW EPISODE 🎙 CONFLICT RESOLUTION: THE SECRET TO FIGHTING WELL!” • Getting to resolution after an argument is always challenging in a relationship, so in today’s episode (EP:58), I am sharing tips and strategies that will help you get to resolving conflict quickly, while learning how to fight well! • bit.ly/thewifewisdompodcast” • #wifewisdom #wifetribe #wifewisdompodcast #wifematerial #wifewarrior #wifenation #wifecoach #wifetips #wifeintraining #marriage101 #marriagetips #conflictresolution #fightingwell #forgivenessiskey #couplescounseling #coupleshelp #marriagegoals #marriagebootcamp


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Shout out to the Husbands who don't take there Wives for Granted😍😍 Sometimes it's the little things that makes your Lady happy😊💑👫 #Marriage #marriageequality #marriagelife #marriages #marriagequotes #marriageworks #marriageadvice #marriagerocks #MarriageMatters #marriagetips #marriage365 #marriage101 #marriagematerial #marriagevows #marriagefirst #Marriagevibes #ChangingTheNarrative #LoveMarriageCoffee #❤💍☕


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My boys 💙 I’m definitely out numbered in the Masingo house, but I wouldn’t have it any other way. As soon as the pregnancy test showed a positive I hoped that Marc and the baby would be close. I never dreamed that they would have a bond this special. I am so grateful for the active role @masingopartyof3 takes in parenting!


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Sis, listen carefully to his words. He speaks the word of God with authority. He’s not perfect but he is God-fearing and honest enough to admit his shortcomings and he is patient and determined to grow as a person. He is there to journey with you. He will help you confront your fears and support your dreams. . . . . #wives #wivesandmothers #wivesclub #godlywives #marriedforlife #marriedliferocks #loveandmarriage #marriagecommunication #marriagerocks #marriagequotes #marriages #herdopemarriage #marriageworks #marriageadvice #wifegoals #christianwife #marriagetip #marriageministry #healthymarriage #marriagevibes #marriagelife #strongmarriage #marriagematters #godlymarriage #christianmarriage #marriagecoaching #prayingwife #ilovemyhusband #marriage101 #happymarriage


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Two hearts, two imperfect persons, different pulses, different past stories, same vision, same faith, same hope, same love, same God! Marriage is a journey of becoming and at every stage of this union process, there will be many things that need to be learnt, unlearnt and adapted. The key to the progress of this process is to understand the importance of 'Harmony'. To achieve a beautiful harmony, you need God and His word to be your melody - the foundation upon which your parts are built and united. Don't settle for less - Individually, you are God's masterpiece, how much more when you come together with Jesus Christ as your foundation - The Rock upon which your marriage is built. Though the storms may come, you will stay standing, not by your efforts, but by God's grace alone. #Spiritfilledmarriage #spiritfilledwife #spiritfilledhusband #kingdommarriage #Harmony #Union #BeautifulImperfection #Marriagethatlasts #marriage #marriages #marriagegoals #marriagelife #MarriageProposal#marriagequotes #marriageworks #MarriageMatters #marriagetips #marriage101 #marriageisfun #marriagetip #marriageministry #Synergy #unity #oneness #prayinghusbands #prayingwives #Spiritfilledhusbands #Spiritfilledwives 📷: @jjpstudios


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If you love ❤️ Somone, let them go, if they come back to you it was meant to be....⠀ ⠀ I may like watching a romantic film but I would not call myself a romantic.⠀ ⠀ It’s ironic because our love story makes for a great romantic film.⠀ ⠀ Our story has been years in the making... And we plan to keep going till death do us part.⠀ ⠀ Watch how it all began using the link in bio and pls like the video, subscribe and hit the bell to be notified when I post a new one.⠀ ⠀ If you also missed our wedding vid do check it out ⠀ Let me know in comments how did you meet your person? ⠀


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Don't act ignorant when God is trying to warn you from that bad energy, abuse, violence and all the ills that is coming your way.... #love #relationships #marryright #marriageadvice #marriage101 #marriage #sex#wife #letitgo #badenergy #Mondays


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One of the silliest fights I had with my husband before we were married was over ketchup. I say "silly" now but back then it was a horrible fight. ⁠ Learn more about how this fight changed how we looked at our relationship in this week's blog post: A House Divided by Ketchup: Understanding Cultural Differences in a Relationship⁠ Click the link in the bio to read it⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ #positiveconnections #marriagegoals #marriagelife #familycomesfirst #lovefamilytime #marriagefirst #marriageproblems #marriages #marriage101 #marriagetime #marriageadvice #marriageisfun #marriagematters #marriagetips #marriage365 #marriagetip #marriedlife #marriageworks #argue #arguments #ketchup #argue #arguements #arguement #argue #noneedtoargue #dontarguewithme #argued


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This is such a key piece. Rather than a relationship being seen as secure or insecure, I like to see them as having insecure moments. We are so exposed in close love relationships. The rest of the world is at a distance, but your lover is close enough to see the best and least best of your humanity. When everything is going well, we feel unconditionally loved and seen in our most sensitive spots and that is blissful and even healing to old hurts. When it turns and becomes less secure, we want to block and hide and get less naked. Strangely, it’s that very moment in the sequence where we defend or shut down or attack and might trigger them to also feel less secure so the cycle perpetuates. Getting conscious and aware of the deeper layers for each of us can inspire us to hold the other’s vulnerability with the delicate, safety that is needed... even when we feel hurt. We don’t have to get it perfectly right, but it feels amazing to learn to step out of the negative spiral and get back to safety. . #drsuejohnson #staymarried #createthelove #lovecoach #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals❤️ #marriagegoals #lastinglove #marriagebootcamp #marriagerocks


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We enjoyed the God, Sex, & Marriage Conference yesterday! S/O to Laura Gethers (@lovehardermarriagecoaching) - make sure you follow her if you aren't already!


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Collin said something to me the other day that I haven’t been able to get out of my head. We were talking about kiddos and our future (hot topic in the Weber household right now) and he said... “I’m worried when we have kids you’re just going to be like ‘here you go’ and always hand them off to me.” This fear of his is totally valid. I wake up, do my thing, go to work, come home, work some more, read a book, work some more... all this while he makes dinner, brings it to me on the couch, and cleans it up. You know, rockstars, with or without kids when you’re married... you’re a team and you have to help each other and share the responsibilities. His comment reminded me that I’ve got to do a better job right now at being a more present wife. For me this means helping with dinner in some way whether it’s the actual cooking part or the cleaning up part. Anyway, just wanted to share that glimpse into our life with you of where we are at. We all have our struggles and things we could work on. At the end of the day, showing up presently for my family is a must so this week... I’m working on it. Cheers.


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Marqus and Kayla discuss the video of Kirk Franklin and Pastor Gray and how you have to divorce those spirits and soul ties you may have had. That is why it is so important to wait until marriage because you are bringing added stress on your spouse and they cant be who God called them to be. Available now on YouTube! Link in bio!


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Touch your neighbor and say 🗣 “Sis, be on this call tomorrow!” We’ll be LIVE on Facebook & on the phone line! ☎️📱🤙🏾 - Let’s Pray Heaven on Earth 🌎🙏🏾- - #wtw #lpfm #wivesthatworship #ladiespositioningformarriage #prayerwarrior #prayerrequest #sisterhood #womenofgod #faith #preparingformarriage #marriage101


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✨What do you do when relationships get hard? . . Everyone says it - “Marriage is hard.” But the conversation rarely goes beyond that to practical advice. Jake and I certainly don’t have all the answers but here are some practical things that have worked for us whenever conflict has reared its ugly head. . . 💙Communicate clearly and openly. We’ve learned to kindly share how we’re feeling, what we’re thinking, and what we need from each other. It’s so easy to stay inside your own head and assume the other person knows what you’re feeling or what you’re expecting from them. Spoiler alert: they usually don’t! . . 💚Seek advice from someone (or a couple) who is in a healthy place and happily married. We’ve reached out for help and advice countless times and not only has it given us incredible friendships, it has also helped us learn from other’s mistakes. . . 💜Buy a Book. There have been a few times where a good book has helped us learn good strategies or conflict resolution skills that have been crucial for us. Also it gives you good things to talk about and learn about each other when you read together! . . If you’re feeling isolated and need someone to talk to, I LOVE talking about marriage/relationships and I’m all ears. Send me a message and I’d love to be here for you!💕 . . #marriage #youngandmarried #happilymarried #conflictresolution #marriagequotes #marriagetoday #love #communication #marriage101 #marriagetip


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What do you think about this 🤔? Tell us in the comment section. - - Follow @loveclinics for more.


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We teach people how to treat us and how to love us. Click the link in my bio for new video. #LoveThyMarriage


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"I am too busy, we just don't have time for sex"⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ “I have 3 kids, of course I don’t have time for intimacy”⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ “I’m going through menopause, obviously I don’t want to have sex”⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ “My partner and I have been together for 10 years, sex just isn’t the same as it was in the beginning.”⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ “I’m over 50. Women just don’t want sex as they get older” ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Raise your hand if you’ve ever thought something like this 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏿‍♀️⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ I’m here to tell you none of these are the reason for your low libido or loss of interest in sex. ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ These are myths we tell ourselves because we haven't addressed the underlying problem. ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ Comment a 🙋🏼‍♀️ if you have ever thought, been told or led to believe that women are just programmed to have less interest in sex. ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ ⁠⠀ ( #📷 @saibnco )⁠⠀ #relationshipgoals #pleasure #whatyourtherapistwantsyoutoknow #tantra #marriage #marriagegoals #marriage101 #couplegoals #sexuality #sexpositive #sexualhealth #sexed #sexeducation #sexedsquad #sextherapy #sexeducator #sextips #lighttherapy #libido #sexdrive #femalehealth #desire #mavenclinic #prioritizepleasure #motherhood #pelvicfloor #momlife #selfcare #womenempowerment


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Tag someone If your man is shutting you out and distancing himself. Or if he’s already made up his mind that it’s over. Then there’s only one thing you can do to get him back for good. You can’t convince him. You can’t beg. You can’t make promises. It will only push him further away. And changing his mind is impossible. ⠀ ⠀ TAP THE LINK ON MY PROFILE PAGE to discover how to trigger emotions deep inside him. Feelings he ALREADY has for you. That will get him to change his own mind from the inside out and have him chasing you and begging YOU for a second chance⠀ ⠀ #marriageisforever #marriagematters #godlywife #marriagehelp #marriageisbeautiful #marriagecoach #strongmarriage #marriage101 #marriagetips #marriagerocks #marriage365 #godlyhusband #prayingwife #marriagequotes #oneflesh #marriageworks #marriagegoals #marriagetip #marriages #relationshipexpert #husbandandwifeforlife #marriagetoday #marriedforlife #marriagelife #marriagewisdom #healthymarriage #relationshipcounselling #relationshiptips #premaritalcounseling #relationshipadvice


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These STORIES we share every week are the lessons we 𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐧𝐞𝐝 and 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐝 while being married! It's our desire to see singles and couples learn the things we didn't know that they can use to make a difference in their marriage now or in the future! ⁣⁣ The next part of that journey is The Loft Project. Help us create the home for the Jalen & Cacie Studios by donating and watching the video at the link in our bio!⁣ ⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ #ThisIsntEvenTheBestPart⁣⁣ Watch the rest of "The Loft Project" at the link in our bio!!!⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ https://youtu.be/H_pTniSwZBM⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ .⁣⁣ #SavingMarriages #marriage #happymarriage #marriagetips #Marriageiswork #marriageadvice #marriagehelp  #theartofmarriage  #marriage101 #marriageworks #marriageministry  #marriageisforever #marriedtomybestfriend #godlymarriage #christiandating #christianmarriage #marriagebed #marriagewisdom #marriagecoach #marriagequotes #marriagequote #relationship #couplegoals #relationshipadvice #marriagegoals #inspiration #christiancouple #communication


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He asked me on a spontaneous date (which is the last word I would ever use to describe Jon). • I surprised him by getting my wedding rings on for the first time in 6 months. • You tell me which of us did it better...


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Two more weeks to go for our Family Day Celebration and also Marriage Seminar which is coming up on 25th&27th of October 2019. Marriage Seminar is 4:30pm on 25th, and Family Day Special is 10am and 5:30pm on 27th. Fellowship Baptist Church is local opposite Oluwagbamila International School, Along Ijare Road, Off Ajofolu Junction, Ilere, Akure, Ondo State, Nigeria. You can reach on 07064634434 or visit our website fbcakure.org. We will be looking forward to seeing you around for this special program. #familymatters #homefirst #marriageissues #akure #baptistchurch #preachingoftheBible #marriage101 #familyconnectsafrica


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Last week, I challenged you to start working on kid-proofing your marriage. The response was clear...you know you need to, but the reasons not to seemed endless. ⁠ ⁠ Time⁠ Money⁠ Angry at each other⁠ Don't know what to do⁠ ⁠ What I read is "I am scared that it won't work, so why even try?" ⁠ ⁠ Here is your why: Because you chose this partner and you have at least one kid with them. Even if you do everything you can to kid-proof your marriage and it still doesn't work, you will have an amazing friendship that can last through anything.⁠ ⁠ So let's stop being afraid of what it may not do by kid-proofing our relationship and start taking action today. Give me confirmation you get what I am saying by posting an emoji below. ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ ⁠ #positiveconnections #marriagegoals #marriagelife #familycomesfirst #lovefamilytime #marriagefirst #marriageproblems #marriages #marriage101 #marriagetime #marriageadvice #marriageisfun #marriagematters #marriagetips #marriage365 #marriagetip #marriedlife #marriageworks #argue #arguments #yourstory #couplesadvice #relationshipadvice #couplesgoals #relationshiptips #couplegoals#backtolove #fallinginlove #relationshipexpert #lifeafterkids


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Your arms feel more like home than any house ever did.✨✨✨ #marriagequotes #marriage101 #marriedmybestfriend


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Yesterday I was given the most incredible gift of my life, the gift of the woods. . If you don’t know Cam and I used to have a much more active lifestyle, the woods was our place. When my health started to decline 2 years ago, that changed. We where terrified of being stuck in the woods without cell service, and wondering how long it would take for an ambulance to get to me when I inevitably go into anaphylactic shock. Last week he found out that one of our favorite places to walk, has a handicap parking area, with a handicap accessible path to a look out. . Yesterday I was got a part of myself back that I devastatingly thought I had lost forever. I got the smell of crisp fall wind, the sounds of leaves crunching and rustling under animals. I got back the sights of our world in its most natural state, I got my connection to the earth back. . So after we where freezing cold from the crisp northern Michigan wind whipping us and my tear stained face, we started to walk back to the car. As I was soaking in as much as I could, I realized the moment needed to be photographed not only of the nature surrounding us, but of us. The two of us, lovers and fighters of this life firmly planted in the woods to remember this incredible gift of love my husband gave me. . . . #disabledandproud #mastcellsucks #mastcellactivationsyndrome #mastcellactivationdisorder #mastcellactivationdisease #mastcelldisease #mcas #spoonie #spoonielife #spooniesupport #disabledcouple #spooniecommunity #spooniesisterhood #chronicillnesswarrior #marriageisagift #marriagegoals #marriage101 #marriedlife #thistlehouse #houseofthistle #traversecity #traversecitymichigan #northernmichigan #michigannature


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I recently heard a speaker say to a group of husbands, ""Your wife is a reflection of how well you love her"", which I thought was pretty profound. Our mates are not only a reflection of how we treat THEM, but they serve as a mirror for US as partners, good or bad. It can be humbling to admit our own faults (as they so kindly point them out) but seeing this as a helpful and even welcome part of marriage can make the difference between resentment and intimacy in your marriage. How has your partner served as a mirror to you?


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If you are in a loving relationship and have feelings of fear or uneasiness in the bedroom, the best thing you can do is take the leap of vulnerability and talk to your partner⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ It can be nerve wracking to wonder how they might react. In the long run, though, your relationship will grow deeper because of it.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ You deserve to feel safe in any situation⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Questions?⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ I would love to help.⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ Comment here or send me a DM⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ .⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀ #sahm #sahmlife #sahmlifestyle #wahmlife #wahmstyle #wifelife #housewife #housewifelife #momhood #motherhood #momlife #beingmom #pureromance #bestlifenow #dolifedifferent #sahmproblems #momprobs #wifeproblems #christianmarriage #relationshipgoals #momlifebelike #stopanddropmom #mommyproblems #momtruth #marriageproblems #marriage101 #healthyrelationship #healthymarriage #marriagerocks


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The research is clear. It’s not conflict itself that sinks a couple’s relationship. It’s how they handle conflict. Conflict is inevitable— life is frustrating and opportunities for misunderstandings and hurt feelings abound. Plus, your intimate relationship WILL activate your old wounds (and your partner’s old wounds) which means that you are often fighting, not your partner, but a ghost. —— What helps is practicing relational self-awareness regarding your “conflict story.” What did you see in your family growing up? * Did people escalate— yelling and blaming and slamming doors? That’s terrifying for a little person, and it would be wholly understandable if you avoid conflict like the plague! * Did people sweep stuff right under the rug— walking around in icy silence or trading sarcastic quips? That’s confusing for a little person, and it would be wholly understandable if you have no clue what healthy conflict looks like. Don’t get it twisted. Even if you had the privilege of watching grown ups deal with frustration with grace and care, it’s still hard! When we get activated, the mature part of our brain (the prefrontal cortex) goes “offline” and the fight/flight/freeze part of our brain (the amygdala) takes over. So “fighting fair” is really about doing what it takes to move ourselves from a “me versus you” space back into a space where listening, understanding, and validating are possible. A space of empathy. ——- If that’s not possible, our best and bravest move is to take a time out— “I love us too much to keep talking right now. I’m scared of saying something I’m going to later regret. I need to step away for the sake of us.” If you call the time out, you’re in charge of rescheduling the convo, so that it doesn’t become a tool of avoidance. Use the time apart to fight to see the big picture. My friend and colleague Eli Finkel would tell you to use his Relationship Hack— write about the conflict from the perspective of a neutral third party who has both of your best interests at heart. It works! Conflict, when handled with empathy, can be a gateway for greater intimacy. #lovingbravely


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“You are my today, and all of my tomorrows” ❤️⠀ ⠀ Happy #sunday everyone! ⠀ ⠀ #princesslycom


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👉Treat your husband like he already is the man you want him to become🧶 👉Tretirajte muža kao da je već čovek koj želite da postane🍂 👉Trattate vostro marito come se già fosse l’uomo che volete diventi🍁 • • • #dailyquotes #dailyinspiration #marriagequotes #lovequotes #lovequotesdaily #marriage #marriagetoday #marriagegoals💍 #marriagehelp #marriagetip #marriage101 #coachwife #wifecoaching #happymarriage #godlymarriage #godlyhusband #godlywife #relacje #matrimonio #purposefulliving #purposefullife


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So as much as @drshellypersad discuss the issues of being addicted to your social media and smart phone, we find ways to use it to our advantage. This is one of the secrets we teach clients of how to keep the fire in their relationship burning. . Sexting each other when you are apart from each other during the day..the sexting can be images you find on the internet, or things you desire of each other... it's also a great way to express and explore your sexuality to your partner if the idea of sitting down and having sexual conversation is scary for you. #loveher #instalove #lovingwife #sexualblueprint #married #marriedandhappy #marriage101 #funmarriage #bestfriends #osho #relationships #relationshipadvice #loveadvice #relationshiptips #loveisallyouneed #lovefearlessly #loveandsex #sexishealthy #sexualcompatability #sexualconnection #conscioussex #gratitude #nojealousy #loveisreal #lustforlife #sexualsecrets #sexualhealing #sexualdna #tantra


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To My Wife, Happy Anniversary!! Thank you for: Your PATIENCE, I am much more than a handful. I say that I'm complex, but most would say difficult. Lol.Yet, here we are Side by Side. Your SUPPORT, "Can't Stop Won't Stop" I am always setting goals and chasing dreams. You're always there to support and create a gameplan. Even when you're chasing yours. You understand that "a better U makes a better Us", or I should say "a better Me makes a better We" Your MOTIVATION, you help me see the lessons in my failures and the times when life knocks us down. Which makes it easier to get up and keep pushing. You are truly my "Ride or Die". I LOVE and APPRECIATE you. -MD #OutLastForever #AnotherYear #AnotherYear #Anniversary #LoveYouForeverAndADay #MaritalMinds #wereamovement #wegrowtogether #butwereaforcewhenweretogether #marriageadvice #marriagetips #betheYOUtheyfellinlovewith  #explorepage #ringsup #love #marriage101 #TheDurhamsToKnowUsIsToLoveUs


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Tag someone If your man is shutting you out and distancing himself. Or if he’s already made up his mind that it’s over. Then there’s only one thing you can do to get him back for good. You can’t convince him. You can’t beg. You can’t make promises. It will only push him further away. And changing his mind is impossible. ⠀ ⠀ TAP THE LINK ON MY PROFILE PAGE to discover how to trigger emotions deep inside him. Feelings he ALREADY has for you. That will get him to change his own mind from the inside out and have him chasing you and begging YOU for a second chance⠀ ⠀ #marriageisforever #marriagematters #godlywife #marriagehelp #marriageisbeautiful #marriagecoach #strongmarriage #marriage101 #marriagetips #marriagerocks #marriage365 #godlyhusband #prayingwife #marriagequotes #oneflesh #marriageworks #marriagegoals #marriagetip #marriages #relationshipexpert #husbandandwifeforlife #marriagetoday #marriedforlife #marriagelife #marriagewisdom #healthymarriage #relationshipcounselling #relationshiptips #premaritalcounseling #relationshipadvice


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This is the Moment #marriage101


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The key to a happy marriage is flirting! Flirt and act like you did when you were dating! Those little things trickle into big the things and make all the difference! #howyoudoin


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Always remember... Whatever routine you did to get them, make sure to keep up that same energy once you have them💯... #Marriage101 #DateNight #GoodTimes #MeAndMrsAvery


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Hang in there babe. Just ONE MORE WEEK. 🛳🏖☀️💏😍


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Si timbangan geser ke kiri krn kerja keras bagai kudha x si timbangan geser ke kanan krn selalu always jajan eskopi dan boba 😭😂 . Tapi harus diakui bahwa ini merupakan salah satu team work yg baik bukan? Suami kerja keras, istri jajan lebih keras 🤣 . Hayo ngaku siapa yg begini juga? 🤪 . #katamamaella #marriage101 #husbandandwife #teamwork #ayahandeci


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Never take for granted what you do. That's what we're learning every single day. You never know who is watching and just how strongly God is using you. ⁣⁣⁣⁣ 𝗪𝐞'𝐫𝐞 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐢𝐝𝐝𝐥𝐞 𝐨𝐟 "𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭." 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐢𝐬 𝐠𝐨𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐡𝐨𝐦𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐉𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧 & 𝐂𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐮𝐝𝐢𝐨𝐬, 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐩𝐥𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐝𝐮𝐜𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐯𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐨 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐰𝐞 𝐝𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐢𝐛𝐮𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐰𝐨𝐫𝐥𝐝. 𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐚𝐥𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐭𝐨𝐮𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐔𝐧𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐬, 𝐂𝐚𝐧𝐚𝐝𝐚, 𝐊𝐞𝐧𝐲𝐚, 𝐍𝐢𝐠𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐚, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐰𝐞'𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐫𝐞𝐚𝐜𝐡 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐩𝐞𝐨𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐆𝐨𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐥 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐚𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐥𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐦𝐚𝐫𝐫𝐢𝐚𝐠𝐞𝐬! 𝐎𝐮𝐫 𝐠𝐨𝐚𝐥 𝐢𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞 $𝟕𝟓𝟎 𝐭𝐨 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐯𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐬𝐨 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐥𝐚𝐮𝐧𝐜𝐡 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐧𝐞𝐱𝐭 𝐩𝐡𝐚𝐬𝐞 𝐨𝐟 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐲! 𝐀𝐧𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐰𝐡𝐨 𝐠𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐟𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐫𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐢𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐢𝐫 𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐜𝐫𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐭𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤 𝐰𝐞'𝐫𝐞 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐢𝐧 𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐥𝐲 𝟐𝟎𝟐𝟎 (𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐬 𝐨𝐧 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐜𝐨𝐦𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐬𝐨𝐨𝐧)! 𝐓𝐨 𝐝𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐭𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐋𝐨𝐟𝐭 𝐏𝐫𝐨𝐣𝐞𝐜𝐭, 𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐢𝐨! 𝐄𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥 𝐮𝐬 𝐚𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐰𝐚𝐫𝐝 𝐚𝐭 𝐣𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐧𝐝𝐜𝐚𝐜𝐢𝐞@𝐠𝐦𝐚𝐢𝐥.𝐜𝐨𝐦 𝐬𝐨 𝐰𝐞 𝐜𝐚𝐧 𝐭𝐚𝐤𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐧𝐚𝐦𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐝𝐝 𝐭𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐛𝐨𝐨𝐤.⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣ 𝐓𝐨𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐑𝐚𝐢𝐬𝐞𝐝 𝐒𝐨 𝐅𝐚𝐫: $𝟏𝟑𝟎⁣⁣⁣ ⁣⁣⁣⁣ Thank You!⁣⁣⁣⁣ ⁣ ⁣𝐆𝐈𝐕𝐄:⁣ https://www.plumfund.com/crowdfunding/the-loft-project⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ "𝘚𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘔𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘪𝘢𝘨𝘦𝘴 𝘖𝘯𝘦 𝘚𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘺 𝘢𝘵 𝘢 𝘛𝘪𝘮𝘦!"⁣⁣⁣⁣ . . . . . #SavingMarriages #marriage #happymarriage #marriagetips #Marriageiswork #marriageadvice #marriagehelp  #theartofmarriage  #marriage101 #marriageworks #marriageministry  #marriageisforever #marriedtomybestfriend #godlymarriage #christiandating #christianmarriage #marriagebed #marriagewisdom #marriagecoach #marriagequotes #marriagequote #relationship #couplegoals #relationshipadvice #marriagegoals #inspiration #christiancouple #communication


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"Nothing  is working out" I'm tired One step forward,  ten steps back One thing after the next "When  will I get a break Lord" We have 2.5 months left in this DECADE.Yes decade!!Don't go down without a fight ! How many swings do you have left in you ? Keep swinging  baby 🗣 Be Bold | Be Great | Be Beautiful . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #fightingformymarriage #fightingforlove #notgoingdownwithoutafight #fighting💪 #fightlikeagirl #fighting💪 #notgivingin #notgivinguponlove #winnerinchrist #marriageproblems #marriage101 #marriagequotes #whewchild #loveonthebrain #loveontop #loveonatwowaystreet #marriedatfirstsight #marriedmybestfriend #stillirise #stillistand @ #preseverance #livinginlove #mummysboy💙 #mummyduties #mummygirl❤️ #mindovermatter


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Life is short and the older we get the more we feel it. Enjoy every bit of moment and be happy. Love, be kind and most importantly BE HUMAN - follow @staying_in_love_ For more thoughts 😍 😍 😍


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Today, We are celebrating our 1st Wedding Anniversary. The significance of this Anniversary and share worthy is the Celebration of Love. We are the “Second Chance Couple”. Married (09), Divorced (14), Reconciled (17) & Remarried (18). ⠀ ⠀ Read along as I share “Our Testimony” ⬇️ ⠀ ⠀ Many people don’t take into consideration the possibility of missing one another after the intensity of the separation and divorce dies down. After EVERYTHING settles, you begin to think, what could I have done differently? Did I make a mistake. Yep!!!!!!!!⠀ ⠀⠀ That’s what happened to us. We met in our early 20s, but didn’t get married until our mid to late 20s. We both were on the path to starting our careers. During the marriage, we had unrealistic expectations about marriage and what it should resemble and when that wasn’t the case, we argued. We lost who we were, had a minimum connection with God, and looked to others for answers. All mistakes!!!!! We tried couples therapy and eventually divorced in 2014 after 5 years of marriage. We dated other people, however realized that we still had love for each other whenever we would cross paths. ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Thoughts of our marriage sessions played over in our minds, what if we change? What if I am more generous and more accepting? What if I am more confident and connected to important parts of myself? ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ Those thoughts turned into action. We reconciled our relationship in the latter part of 2017 & remarried in 2018 (10/12), with a new level of maturity, willingness to learn how things got in a bad place to start with and a better outlook on what each other could do differently so that we don’t find ourselves in the same position. ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ And guess what, TODAY, we are celebrating our 1 year anniversary. ⠀⠀ ⠀⠀ #marriage #marriageiscool #mindfulliving #marriagegoals #emotionalwellness #marriagetoday #selflove #marriagequotes #marriageafterdivorce #married #love #boundaries #loveandhappiness #marriage365 #marriageworks #marriagecounseling #relationshipquotes #marriage101 #healthymindset #selfcompassion #empowerment #purpose #happymarriage #happiness #healingfromtheinsideout #personaldevelopment #lovequotes #relationshiphelp #lovelanguage


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Tag someone If your man is shutting you out and distancing himself. Or if he’s already made up his mind that it’s over. Then there’s only one thing you can do to get him back for good. You can’t convince him. You can’t beg. You can’t make promises. It will only push him further away. And changing his mind is impossible. ⠀ ⠀ TAP THE LINK ON MY PROFILE PAGE to discover how to trigger emotions deep inside him. Feelings he ALREADY has for you. That will get him to change his own mind from the inside out and have him chasing you and begging YOU for a second chance⠀ ⠀ #marriageisforever #marriagematters #godlywife #marriagehelp #marriageisbeautiful #marriagecoach #strongmarriage #marriage101 #marriagetips #marriagerocks #marriage365 #godlyhusband #prayingwife #marriagequotes #oneflesh #marriageworks #marriagegoals #marriagetip #marriages #relationshipexpert #husbandandwifeforlife #marriagetoday #marriedforlife #marriagelife #marriagewisdom #healthymarriage #relationshipcounselling #relationshiptips #premaritalcounseling #relationshipadvice


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“When we decided that divorce was not an option, but getting down on our knees to pray was, that’s the day our marriage turned around!” -Pesa & Whitney Shayo - -💛 Making sure everything was going to be perfect is NOT what saved our marriage. - -💛 Making the decision to STAY along with asking the Lord to take over is what ultimately saved our marriage. - -💛 For almost a year, my husband was the only one who wanted to reconcile, I did not. - -💛 He was very stubborn about the whole thing and never gave up. - -💛 Eventually I made a commitment to stay, and commitment is what saved us. - -💛 We hope our story blesses you, because we want you to know that restoration is always possible. - -💛 -Pesa and Whitney - -💛 If you need to read more about going from separation to restoration, you can find our book using the link in our bio - -💛 - -💛 Blessings, Pesa & Whitney - -💛 For more marriage tips follow @liveyourbestmarriage #liveyourbestmarriage . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #happymarriage #lovethatlasts #Marriageiswork #ForeverKindOfLove #themangodhasforyou #blissfulmarriage #theartofmarriage #marriage101 #marriageworks #growingoldtogether #marriageisforever #spiritualmaturity #marriedtomybestfriend #godlymarriage #virtuouswoman #christianmarriage #marriagebed #marriagewisdom #marriagecoach #marriagequotes #marriagequote #healthymarriages #couplegoals


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How expectations can ruin a marriage Lesson #1 from the Smith house I am not a hunter and I don’t wear camo. I found this hat today and decided to put it on for the hubs. My expectation of what would happen: “Babe you look amazing in that camo! Look at you I can’t believe you it! That makes me so happy. You know what you should totally redo our living room in any style you want, it’s all yours!’ What actually happened: ‘Hey. Find ya a camo hat? Cute. I need to work on the cars today.’ Leaves room. Unmet expectations are a huge issue in marriage...obviously this is a little exaggerated expectations to put in a hat, but it makes the point. Divorce your expectations-not your spouse. #marriage101 #marriageadvice #expectations


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Thanks Mom! 😁 ⁣ ⁣ When you're trying really hard to be independent, you don't like to ask for help. But that's 𝐩𝐫𝐢𝐝𝐞 when you really look at it. So, now we're asking for your help! If you want to assist us in developing The Loft, donate to The Loft Project at the link in our bio and watch the rest of this video on YouTube to see what our vision for Jalen & Cacie Studios is!⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #ThisIsntEvenTheBestPart⁣ Watch the rest of "The Loft Project" at the link in our bio!!!⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ ⁣ https://youtu.be/H_pTniSwZBM⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ .⁣ #SavingMarriages #marriage #happymarriage #marriagetips #Marriageiswork #marriageadvice #marriagehelp  #theartofmarriage  #marriage101 #marriageworks #marriageministry  #marriageisforever #marriedtomybestfriend #godlymarriage #christiandating #christianmarriage #marriagebed #marriagewisdom #marriagecoach #marriagequotes #marriagequote #relationship #couplegoals #relationshipadvice #marriagegoals #inspiration #christiancouple #communication


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Find happiness in watching your spouse love other people. The reason you love them is because of their capacity and ability to love. When you share your love, and theirs, with others around you, you both end up in top. One of our favorite things to do together is babysit our nieces and nephews. We find so much joy in loving little ones especially because we've never been able to have our own. We're so grateful for friends and family, that allow us the opportunity to love their children as if they were ours. We always have the best days when share our love with the people that deserve it. #marriage101 #nojealousy #simplylove #chooselove #findhappiness #thejoyofmarriage #thestrasburgs


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Reposted from @marriageisforever (@get_regrann) - If your man is shutting you out and distancing himself. Or if he’s already made up his mind that it’s over. Then there’s only one thing you can do to get him back for good. You can’t convince him. You can’t beg. You can’t make promises. It will only push him further away. And changing his mind is impossible. ⠀ ⠀ ⠀ #marriageisforever #marriagematters #marriedforlife #marriageworks #marriagetips #marriedtomybestfriend #marriagerocks #marriagecoach #marriedmybestfriend #marriagetip #marriagegoals #marriagehelp #loveyourspouse #marriage101 #godlymarriage #myhusbandismybestfriend #husbandandwifegoals #ilovemyhusband #happilymarried #husbandgoals #lovemyhubby #handsomehubby #besthusbandever #wifey #husbandandwife #forevertogo #futurehubby #lovemyhusband #happyanniversarymylove #besthubby


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