#divorcesucks

#DidYouKnow? That feeling of euphoria you get when you fall in love is the same feeling that drug users experience! 💕💞


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I swear it was on here somewhere 👀


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One of the most selfish things you can do during or after your divorce is turn and offer help to someone else. It’s selfish bc the reward belongs to you, it helps you recover, it gives you strength. It might sound counterintuitive, but give it a shot. Who can you help today? Who needs YOUR support?


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Sometimes you have to take the positive pieces people deposit in your life and appreciate those moments. When they feel the need to remove themselves from your life....LET THEM. It's ok to feel hurt, lonely, or confused. Be at peace with their actions, decisions, and mistakes. Take and enjoy what life gives you. Also be mindful it doesn't always last forever. Don't live in the moment, just cherish every moment. Get excited about the future. What other things or people God sends your way. Appreciate you guys being patient with us. Don't forget I'm reading the emails you all sent in and dropping my POV to them  ANONYMOUSLY so shoot me yours so it can make the podcast. EMAIL ALL QUESTIONS SCENARIOS, STORIES and SITUATIONS ABOUT YOUR LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS at:  linkeduplovephones@gmail.com Also follow us on IG & FB. Twitter: linkeduploveph1 Follow our #podcasthost Gattiethaking on IG, Facebook, Twitter &Tumblr #divorce #marriedlife #divorcemen #love #loveandrelationships #christianmingle #christiansingles #divorcesucks #divorced #interracialdating #christiansinglemoms #interracial #marriagegoals #relationshipgoals #loveandrelationshipshardships #loveandrelationship #manandwoman #biggirls #soulmates #mantowoman #womantowoman #loversandfriends #sextalk #gay #lesbian #christiansingledads #divorcemoms #linkeduplovelifepodcast


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50% of marriages end in DIVORCE!!! I don’t know about you but I never married this man with the end goal to be divorce yet that’s what we BOTH thought was the solution. Guys marriage is HARD!! (✍🏽side note: I’m answering questions on my story about marriage. Some good ones are up already, I’m an open book so go💃🏽) I been talking a lot about this because it’s real to me and with the responses I have been getting via post and privately...well my gosh I think I’m coming for my marriage and yours, so hell we fighting back!!!! 💥💥 How? By talking about marriages, by sharing my story, by spreading hope, by speaking LIFE over you and by launching this marriage series that I know in my heart it’s much needed. So get ready 👏🏽👏🏽 Every Tuesday for the next 4 weeks I’m going to dig deep into marriage and all the toxic 💩 waste that is sitting in your marriage and even mine so we can heal, forgive, talk and educate ourselves Who’s joining me? Cause it’s time for hell to take a seat 💥💥💥 #marriagesmatter #godcenteredlove #faithbloggers #saveyourmarriage #divorcesucks


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Divorce strips away many of our identities---the ways we see ourselves or parts that we consider make us who we are. It's not just the end of "wife" and "Mrs." It's also the end of other parts of you that were created in the marriage. ☠️ ☠️ Maybe you're haunted by identities you're shaming yourself with. Were you the "one who never spoke up" or "the wife who let things go until she couldn't anymore." Were you a believer in "my needs aren't as important as his" or "if I do x, y, and z enough maybe he'll see me?" 👻 👹 Are there identities you mourn? Were there parts of you that brought a sense of security, love, pride, joy that ended with your relationship? 😭 😢 It can feel very disorienting figuring out "Who am I now?" ❓ ❓ YOU ARE STILL YOU! ❗️ ❗️ The core of who you are remains. YOUR essence, your identity, your unique purpose and gifts can never be stripped away. 🔆 🔆 You're still here, love. You're raw and vulnerable. You're on new territory. There's a power in that. In this alchemical fire of transition, you have access to CHOOSE what parts of you want to go and what gets to stay. 🔥 🔥 "Wife" and "Mrs." and "significant other" are burning away AND this very fire can illuminate the ways of being that no longer serve you. That was the past. Who or what inside you would you like to burn and release as your life transforms? 🔥 🔥 What beliefs no longer serve you? What fears are you ready to stop hiding from? What patterns do you refuse to repeat? 🔥 🔥 Who's rising again in the next stage and who's part of the ashes that fertilize it? 🔥 🔥 What old ways of BEING are you ready to release? Let me know one belief, pattern, or fear you'd like to leave behind in the comments. 📸by @_alisonlove


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Hey & Good Morning!⁣ 👋🏾 ⁣ - I see I have picked up some new followers so let me reintroduce myself ⁣ - My name is Tonya Carter, born in Atlanta BUT fully raised in Decatur, Georgia #SouthernGurl #GaPeach⁣ 🍑 ⁣ - I have two BEE-YOU-TEE-FULL babies! 16 & 12!👩‍👧‍👦 ⁣ - I do have a 9-5, but my work & my ministry is to help women heal from their divorce/breakup.⁣ ⁣ - People often ask, Why you talk about that? Well because people need to heal! I remember thinking that being strong was the solution to moving forward but all that did was hold me back - Doing this caused me to suppress EVERYTHING which only resulted in masking what I needed to deal with!! ⁣ - Making bad decisions, sitting in my anger while believing I had to be strong was frustrating!⁣ ⁣ - Many don’t understand what divorced people go through. It’s a challenging emotional rollercoaster at times 🤷🏽‍♀️ ⁣ - You’re often left to think: Am I crazy? No you’re not! You’re a person who has to go through the process on purpose! It’s okay to not be okay!⁣ ⁣ - Many tell you to just get over it! If it were that easy many would but you don’t just get over it, YOU GET THROUGH IT!⁣ ⁣ - So that’s why I do what I do! No woman NOR man (even though I target women) should feel like they have to suffer in silence!⁣ Yes men hurt to because I get the messages! ⁣ - My platform is created to build a healthy community of individuals to help them divorce their story! You have to do more than divorce the person, you must divorce it all so that you can gain full custody of your life!⁣ PERIODT! ⁣ - For more info about me, my link is in the bio, it contains:⁣ ⁣ - 1️⃣My FREE 8 step checklist⁣ 2️⃣My new book “Divorce Your Story”⁣ 3️⃣My 12 week “Divorce Your Story” program⁣ 4️⃣Coaching & Digital Products⁣ ⁣ - I do lives EVERY Thursday on FB & IG at 9pm EST! Please comment below and tell me what your biggest challenge is after your breakup or divorce. I would love to hear from you so I can better serve you! Love you all & thank you for following me, emailing me, & your DMs to tell me how much my content has been a help to you!⁣ - - 📸 @nikki_g_production 💄@loveablebraidsnstyles


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First workout in over 2 weeks and although in the past I would have been to embarrassed to post and share that today I’m feeling proud of myself for sharing all of my journey and not just the highlights.🎬 . This past year of divorce and heartache has been hard. In fact on most days it simply SUCKS!!! 🤬 And no matter how many pep talks I give myself some days I’m running on fumes and just doing the bare minimum. . But even on the days where I don’t have the motivation to push play and get my 30 minute workout in, I still trust in the Lord with ALL of my heart.❤️ I know that he’s making something new out of my ashes.So cheers to day 1, again. . . . . . . . . . #startingoveragain #trustingod #firstworkout #healing #hope #faith #divorcedmom #divorcerecovery #divorcesucks #exwife #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #depressionhelp #anxiety #itsnotsupposedtobethisway #proverbs31woman #womenoffaith #middleagedwoman


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Learning to enjoy the little things in life again ... Soaking up my surroundings ... Compared my life to the seasons : Autumn is the time of the years to let go of old things, and be hopeful of the things to come in the future. #divorced #divorcesucks #hope #anewbeginning #newbeginnings #afreshstart #quote #abetterself #startingover #singledad #findingmyself #calloftheuniverse #selfworth #loveyourself #healing #higherself #indigo #onlystronger #vibratehigher #spirituality #infj #empath #lightworker #magic #mindfulness #frequencies #knowledgeofself #loveyourself #energyiseverything  #thevibetribe #growth


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In keeping with discussing physical health during divorce, I wanted to talk about sleep. I have always been able to sleep, like a baby in fact, no pills, no warm milk, no bedtime story. During separation and divorce, I didn't lose sleep over the ex. I lost sleep when I was at odds with the kids. * * Post separation, I probably slept better because I wasn't dealing with a pitch dark room and an oceanliner next to me that snored, tossed and turned. Apparently I snore and oh well. I busted my ass during the day, so what? Except, he couldn't sleep. Not just because of my snoring, but nevertheless one night, he put a pillow over my face. Soon I couldn't breathe and felt like I was suffocating. That was one of the things that had me sleep on the couch! I still slept like a baby. * * Sleep is crucial to our health. It's the body's way of shutting down to recharge very much like plugging in your phone. Make sure you're getting rest. We need our "beauty sleep" as they call it. A good night's sleep helps you prepare for the next day. Are you sleeping enough? * * #divorce #divorcesucks #singlelife #singlemomlife #singleparent #imfineonmyown #imnotonthemarket #notlookingforapartner #sleep #physicalhealth #gettinggoodsleep #peace #peacefulrest


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Sometimes it's just not even worth the effort of trying. And that will automatically result in people not understanding your point of view or situation and them judging you over what they don't understand. That's too bad... For them ... It's your life... And your days are numbered, and tomorrow is never promised. Therefore your happiness should be your priority, no matter who does or does not understand you. #divorced #divorcesucks #hope #anewbeginning #newbeginnings #afreshstart #quote #abetterself #startingover #singledad #findingmyself #calloftheuniverse #selfworth #loveyourself #healing #higherself #indigo #onlystronger #vibratehigher #spirituality #infj #empath #lightworker #magic #mindfulness #frequencies #knowledgeofself #loveyourself #energyiseverything  #thevibetribe #growth


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My Christmas wish is to be able to spend that special day with a wonderful woman. It has been hell for the last two years after my divorce! Is that so much to ask for? I don't think so! . . #divorce #divorcesucks #marrige #brokenspirit #brokenvows #hopeless #depressed #lonely #empty #desolate #lifeafterdivorce #lifegoeson #startingover #singleagain #movingon #newlife #newbeginning #christmas #wish #love #losangeles #southerncalifornia #sanfernandovalley #woman #cowgirl #holidays #newyears


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Before we started our ministry nearly two years ago, Tommy and I spent time intentionally praying and discussing how we would share our story and the life lessons we learned through our restoration process. One aspect we both felt strongly about was a desire to be genuine, to speak from a place of vulnerability and authenticity. In doing so, we never imagined God would use us to touch the lives of so many broken, desperately hurting couples that mirror our past... new post linked in bio. #purposedmarriage #marriagerestoration #restoredmarriage #reconciliation #divorcesucks #fightforyourmarriage


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I am a firm believer that we should be asking “what can I learn from this?” NOT “why is this happening to me ?” When you shift your perspective and give yourself a chance to look at things as working in your favor instead of working against you, you have opportunities to GROW. When I work with women who claim the victim status after a divorce they often have missed many messages in the process. When I am able to get them to shift their perspective and look at what opportunities for growth and learning they can experience from their divorce it changes their lives. If you are ready to learn how to survive your split without stress and create a future that you both desire AND deserve I have great news for you. I am offering a FREE calls for help you get UNSTUCK! You don’t want to miss this. Sign up here: https://calendly.com/nicolyawilliams/15min


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Feel free to express yourself below! . . . Come join me...(men and woman) on my Facebook page. It's new and I already have some pretty amazing people, please click on the bio in my profile, thank you! #divorced #divorce #divorcesupport #divorcedmom #lifeafterdivorce #divorcedparents #divorcerecovery #single #divorcecoach #love #divorcedlife #separation #divorcelife #movingon #seperation #singlemother #marriage #relationships #singleparent #singlemomlife #2ndlifeclub #justbreathe #lifecoach #lifecoaching #divorcesucks #staystrong #breakup #loveyourselftoday #doitforyou #getoveritalready


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I call this meal “Take the High Road and Bite Your Tongue, for One.” 😔 (aka Portobello Mushroom Alfredo and Parmesan on Spinach Linguini) #savory #dinnerforone #homecooking #divorcesucks


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The ultimate measure of a man it's not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at a time of challenge and controversy #divorcesupportquotes #divorce #divorcesupport #quotes #startingover #freshstart #divorcedlife #divorcedmom #divorceddad #divorcesucks


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If you haven’t read my last post, go read it real quick! . . So with all the stress and anxiety I’ve been having, I have needed to find a way to center myself. To calm myself and keep my blood pressure lower. . . Two nights ago 💡 I FIGURED IT OUT 💡. Before I go into to what I figured out, I just want to say that I totally and completely understand that every body handles stress/anxiety differently. There is no one right way to battle your way through it. I’m sharing this because I was inspired by @ashleyrosereeves the other night. Several of her posts kinda meshed together in my mind and then I added some strategies have learned from years of therapy. . . FIRST: I acknowledged that I was feeling anxiety. It’s ok to have anxiety. It’s ok to feel stressed and worried. It’s ok to feel whatever you’re feeling. . SECOND: I stopped everything I was doing and let my thoughts move around. I just sat there thinking (and breathing deeply). . THIRD: I prayed. I prayed the most scattered prayer to ever be said. I asked God to help me figure out what I needed. Boy oh boy did he answer quickly (insert overwhelming gratitude 😭HERE😭). I sat quietly and pondered the ideas that the Holy Ghost gave me. I finally felt CALM 🙌🏼. . FORTH: I made an action plan. I listed out what I needed and how to get it. I prioritized the list and got started. Over the next 24 hours I completed the items on my list. It felt AMAZING! . . FIFTH: I followed up with myself. I thought back through the steps and saw that I not only made it through that ☁️anxiety cloud☁️, I felt more empowered 💪🏼. . Bottom line. This may not work for you or this just may work for you. It may spark some ideas on what you need to combat some anxiety. I’m not a doctor or mental health professional. I am just a daughter of God, wife, mother and working woman who has anxiety and gets that life be cray. If we work together to support each other, everything is possible! . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . #anxietyrelief #anxietyattack #anxietymanagement #mentalhealthawareness #emotionallystrong #thisisdivorce #divorcesucks #daughterofgod #strongerthroughchrist #choosegod #godanswersprayers #anxietytips


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It’s Tuesday and I’m still feeling the love from the weekend. ⁣ ⁣ Love from my husband. ⁣ ⁣ Love from my parents, my sister & her family, as well as from my cousins, aunts & uncles. ⁣ ⁣ Love from my kids... which is something that is a hard subject for me.⁣ ⁣ Sharing custody sucks. I miss my kids every second of every minute of every hour of every day that I am not with them. They are growing up faster than I ever thought was possible. Growing up to be some of the smartest, most lovable, kindest people I know. ⁣ ⁣ For those of you who get to see your kids everyday, although times can be rough & hard, be thankful. ⁣ ⁣ Thankful that you are there not missing a thing. ⁣ ⁣ Thankful that you get to tuck them in and kiss them each night. ⁣ ⁣ Thankful for every second of every minute of every day. ❤️⁣


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It’s okay to feel what you’re feeling. A lot of us felt it. Some of us felt it for years. And not all of us did…but many of us did…we actually left despite the fears in our mind about what effect the “D” word would have on our children. .. I was there. I stayed in that pit of darkness for years, hoping for a miraculous change. I convinced myself that my kiddos were better off with me around the clock in a dysfunctional marriage than with me 50% of the time in a household splintered by divorce. I knew “divorce kids” growing up, and I vowed that my kids would not be “divorce kids” (You know, those kids always turned out messed up?). Or so I thought. And then I though again. Maybe, just maybe, if I took a stand for what was right, and pure, and honest, then maybe, just maybe, we would survive. And so, I chose “divorce” for them: For them to see a strong individual For them to respect me For them to see what love does For them to understand boundaries For them to witness integrity For them to have a chance at healthy love .. It may not seem like there is any end to this journey, but I promise you, it will get better. Follow your heart. .. .. .. #forthem #forme #divorce #divorced #divorcedmom #divorceddad #fdivorce #divorcesucks #divorcebible #divorcekids #divorcedkids #coparent #singleparent #singledad #singlemom #dysfunction #abuse #recovery #healthy #mindset #coach #therapy #fear #fearnot #counseling #divorcelawyer


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I have to remind myself of this frequently because it often feels like “I’m not doing anything” when in fact I’m doing the most important job - spending time with my son daily and raising him to be a good person. • • I haven’t given an update on my #divorce recently and that’s because there isn’t much to say. At the moment we’re in purgatory just waiting for our final court date. Initially we though that would be mid October *aka right now* but unfortunately is not until the end of January 🙄 • •We’ve sent a over couple of offers through the lawyers but they are taking weeks to respond back and with unreasonable counters. So we’re not rally getting anywhere. • • instead we sit and wait and make the best of the time we have together. • • #thesearethegoodoledays #divorcesucks #coparentingduringdivorce #singlemom #toddlermom #boymom #SAHM #letthembelittle #honestmotherhood #transparency #bteam #pimpinjoy


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God bless the women who love mental stimulation. Appreciate you guys being patient with us. Don't forget I'm reading the emails you all sent in and dropping my POV to them  ANONYMOUSLY so shoot me yours so it can make the podcast. EMAIL ALL QUESTIONS SCENARIOS, STORIES and SITUATIONS ABOUT YOUR LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS at:  linkeduplovephones@gmail.com Also follow us on IG & FB. Twitter: linkeduploveph1 Follow our #podcasthost Gattiethaking on IG, Facebook, Twitter &Tumblr #divorce #marriedlife #divorcemen #love #loveandrelationships #christianmingle #christiansingles #divorcesucks #divorced #interracialdating #christiansinglemoms #interracial #marriagegoals #relationshipgoals #loveandrelationshipshardships #loveandrelationship #manandwoman #biggirls #soulmates #mantowoman #womantowoman #loversandfriends #sextalk #gay #lesbian #christiansingledads #divorcemoms #linkeduplovelifepodcast


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Just stay out the Dm's guys. Lol 🤣🥺😂🤣🤣🥺🥺😭😭😭😭😭 Appreciate you guys being patient with us. Don't forget I'm reading the emails you all sent in and dropping my POV to them  ANONYMOUSLY so shoot me yours so it can make the podcast. EMAIL ALL QUESTIONS SCENARIOS, STORIES and SITUATIONS ABOUT YOUR LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS at:  linkeduplovephones@gmail.com Also follow us on IG & FB. Twitter: linkeduploveph1 Follow our #podcasthost Gattiethaking on IG, Facebook, Twitter &Tumblr #divorce #marriedlife #divorcemen #love #loveandrelationships #christianmingle #christiansingles #divorcesucks #divorced #interracialdating #christiansinglemoms #interracial #marriagegoals #relationshipgoals #loveandrelationshipshardships #loveandrelationship #manandwoman #biggirls #soulmates #mantowoman #womantowoman #loversandfriends #sextalk #gay #lesbian #christiansingledads #divorcemoms #linkeduplovelifepodcast


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No caption needed!!!!! Appreciate you guys being patient with us. Don't forget I'm reading the emails you all sent in and dropping my POV to them  ANONYMOUSLY so shoot me yours so it can make the podcast. EMAIL ALL QUESTIONS SCENARIOS, STORIES and SITUATIONS ABOUT YOUR LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS at:  linkeduplovephones@gmail.com Also follow us on IG & FB. Twitter: linkeduploveph1 Follow our #podcasthost Gattiethaking on IG, Facebook, Twitter &Tumblr #divorce #marriedlife #divorcemen #love #loveandrelationships #christianmingle #christiansingles #divorcesucks #divorced #interracialdating #christiansinglemoms #interracial #marriagegoals #relationshipgoals #loveandrelationshipshardships #loveandrelationship #manandwoman #biggirls #soulmates #mantowoman #womantowoman #loversandfriends #sextalk #gay #lesbian #christiansingledads #divorcemoms #linkeduplovelifepodcast


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Man oh man!!! 😅 What an AMAZING conversation!!!! We cut it all the way up! Our boys Troy @savvyking______ & Barney @sugatonemusic came through and kept it ALL THE WAY 💯 about being #friendsafterdivorce They both admit that it’s not an easy thing to do, but it’s worth it and we Thank them!!!! • • • FULL SHOW LINK IN BIO💜💜 #friendshipafterdivorce #friends #friendship #divorce #divorced #stayingfriends #divorcedparents #divorcerecovery #divorcedmom #divorceadvice #divorcecommunity #divorcehumor #divorcee #divorcees #divorce #divorceeducation #separation #separatedmarriages #boundaries #setboundaries #healthyboundaries #boundariesarehealthy #divorcesucks


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What an AMAZING conversation!!!! We cut it all the way up! Our boys Troy @savvyking______ & Barney @sugatonemusic came through and kept it ALL THE WAY 💯 about being #friendsafterdivorce They both admit that it’s not an easy thing to do, but it’s worth it and we Thank them!!!! • • • FULL SHOW LINK IN BIO💜💜 #friendshipafterdivorce #friends #friendship #divorce #divorced #stayingfriends #divorcedparents #divorcerecovery #divorcedmom #divorceadvice #divorcecommunity #divorcehumor #divorcee #divorcees #divorce #divorceeducation #separation #separatedmarriages #boundaries #setboundaries #healthyboundaries #boundariesarehealthy #divorcesucks


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Happy Tuesday ❤️🥰


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A Contempt of Court issue when a former spouse fails to execute their obligations in the marital settlement agreement with regards to real estate and mortgage financing can be avoided if the right steps are taken in advance. (Link to Article on Bio)⠀ ⠀ The best way to avoid these issues is to consult with a qualified divorce lending professional. :)


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“𝘐𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 ​doors of perception​ 𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘤𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘦𝘢𝘳 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘴 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘴,⁣ 𝘐𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘦. 𝘍𝘰𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘩𝘢𝘴 𝘤𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘩𝘪𝘮𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘶𝘱, 𝘵𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘳𝘰' 𝘯𝘢𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘸 𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘩𝘪𝘴⁣ 𝘤𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘯.” - William Blake⁣ ⁣ What doors of perception have appeared since you started the divorce process? ⁣ ⁣ #divorce #love #familylaw #divorced #marriage #relationships #divorcesupport #relationship #coparenting#childsupport #narcissist #motivation #divorcequotes #lovequotes #divorcecoach #instagood#divorceddad #divorcedmom #separation #childcustody #healing #lifeafterdivorce #divorcerecovery#williamblake #greatquotes #fdivorce #divorcesucks#lifeafterdivorce #divorcecommunity#divorcerecovery


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This #JustDivorced bag is a must-have gym essential! It can be worn as a backpack with drawstring closure at top, as well as narrow, contrasting shoulder straps. Use the code JD20 and get 20% off your purchase!


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The key is not to let her (I mean it*) melt...


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Know what happiness means to you - Work hard for your happiness - Don't rely on other people just to make you happy - Attain stability - Forgive


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Early morning airport drop off. #thankful for my ex. You have taught me more than you know. #lifeafterloss can be #beautiful. All you have to do is #forgive . #forgiveness is #key to moving on baggage free. ❤️ . #divorce #divorcesucks #divorcesupport #love


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TL:DR: I talk entrepreneur stuff with an awesome podcaster/coach/leader (@marciamiatke ) Go check out the full episode. . Okay. Most people understand that I love giving relationship stuff out to the world, but this time it’s a little different as I get to show a side of me that most people don’t get to see, which is what it’s like being in the Hustle of Entrepreneurship. . When you’re in the GRIND at the beginning where you’re trying to put 10,000 hours into your craft to be even considered to have mastered something. . And I tried to not sugar coat anything!! Most people will tell you it’s easy. It’s not. It’s hard. It takes a toll on your body and mind. It will test you. That’s why I love this show! . Marcia’s show called the “The Hustler’s Guide to Flow” (which is a top rated show on iTunes) turned the dialogue into one that was tactical and actionable. . What’s it like to build a business from scratch?. . What’s the difference between online businesses and brick and mortar businesss? . What niche do I position myself in? . How do I know what my offer is supposed to be? . I give you all something special too...which is the ROB method. So make sure you tune into the entire episode (First comment is the link to the episode👇🏻) . Don’t be shy either and add Marcia to social media. Her show is super raw, so real, and what I love most about it is that you walk away so enlightened after each episode. Check out the show!


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There will be moments, hours, months, where it feels like too much. . . There will also be epic slivers of ecstasy where you truly feel the transformation of the divorce portal: burning it all down and starting again. . . You CAN start again. Not only can you build it from the architect's seat, but you get to choose your inner design TEAM. . . WHO do you want to call in? It's time to invite those parts of you, those inner strengths, your inner visionary, your inner truth-teller to step forward. . . Who gets a bigger role in your new life? Who gets more of a say? Is it your warrior, your dreamer, your seductress, your sage? Who is calling? What next steps do THEY have for you? . . Divorce isn't all about loss. When your heart breaks open, you gain inner access to ALL of your parts, especially ones you'd previously put on hold until you had more "me time." . . Who inside of you do you want to hear more from? Let me know in the comments! . . Divorce coaching can help you deepen your connection to these strong, wise, (even witchy) parts of you. For a taste of how it works, try my FREE divorce portal mapping call! Click the link in my bio to book now. Let's go within and meet YOUR design team.


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Sometimes its habit when we handle things the same way. I'm guilty of that...but in order to have something different....we have to step outside our box....and do things we don't normally do. Appreciate you guys being patient with us. Don't forget I'm reading the emails you all sent in and dropping my POV to them  ANONYMOUSLY so shoot me yours so it can make the podcast. EMAIL ALL QUESTIONS SCENARIOS, STORIES and SITUATIONS ABOUT YOUR LOVE & RELATIONSHIPS at:  linkeduplovephones@gmail.com Also follow us on IG & FB. Twitter: linkeduploveph1 Follow our #podcasthost Gattiethaking on IG, Facebook, Twitter &Tumblr #divorce #marriedlife #divorcemen #love #loveandrelationships #christianmingle #christiansingles #divorcesucks #divorced #interracialdating #christiansinglemoms #interracial #marriagegoals #relationshipgoals #loveandrelationshipshardships #loveandrelationship #manandwoman #biggirls #soulmates #mantowoman #womantowoman #loversandfriends #sextalk #gay #lesbian #christiansingledads #divorcemoms #linkeduplovelifepodcast


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Truth. #divorcesucks


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If you’re not strong in who you are at your core, you will allow he opinions of others to determine your moves.⁣ ⁣ People will question why you’re single. Then give you a whole questionnaire as if you being single bothers them...ummmmmm so when did a relationship status define anyone’s worth? 🤷🏽‍♀️⁣ ⁣ I’m convinced that this is one of many reasons why they’re so many toxic, unhealthy and off balanced relationships. Many are taught so much about being with someone and not enough about knowing themselves well enough to choose the correct one.⁣ ⁣ As a person who’s been divorced and then jumped into the “dating” game too soon. Let’s just say I’m VERY glad my life didn’t turn out how I planned because chances are I would’ve been divorced AGAIN! 🤦🏽‍♀️⁣ ⁣ The best thing that happened to me was my singleness and this doesn’t imply that I never want another relationship. I’m just content in trusting the timing on my life as opposed to allowing others to tell me what my timing should be.⁣ ⁣ Relationships should not be rushed to have a status. ⁣ ⁣ Thank you @chipbakertsc for this discussion! 🙏🏾⁣ ⁣ #DivorceYourStory#DivorceCoach#MsTonyaSpeaks


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Funny how your mind works and what your heart feels. I know I’m just fine alone but I feel so dang insecure. At times I feel less because I’m not a wife. I feel less because I don’t have a partner. I feel collywobbles. I understand it’s a process but sometimes it is tough. Right now it’s tough for me. #hittinghard #goals #diet #keto #lowcarb #debtfree #thestruggleisreal #bigdreams #highhopes #divorcesucks #ouch #divorce #lowselfesteem


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WOW! 15 YEARS! That’s really hard to believe how fast time flies by! Almost 1/2 our life together & I will never get those years back Youngie! Very sad beyond words!!!!! I pray for peace soon! 💕🙏🙏😢 #narcissisticabuse #narcissist #narcissistawareness #narcissists #divorcesucks


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Sick and tired of living in fear of just living my life, fear of every single thing that mightpossibly go wrong. Breaking free of everything that has helped me back over the past years ... Maybe even sinds The start of my adult life. #divorced #divorcesucks #hope #anewbeginning #newbeginnings #afreshstart #quote #abetterself #startingover #singledad #findingmyself #calloftheuniverse #selfworth #loveyourself #healing #higherself #indigo #onlystronger #vibratehigher #spirituality #infj #empath #lightworker #magic #mindfulness #frequencies #knowledgeofself #loveyourself #energyiseverything  #thevibetribe #growth


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You only have one life to live... Don't live it to the max; ENJOY it to the max ... Surround yourself by people who want to see you happy, with people who are happy because of your happiness. #divorced #divorcesucks #seperation #anewbeginning #newbeginnings #afreshstart #quote #abetterself #startingover #singledad #findingmyself #calloftheuniverse #selfworth #loveyourself #healing #higherself #indigo #onlystronger #vibratehigher #spirituality #infj #empath #lightworker #magic #mindfulness #frequencies #knowledgeofself #loveyourself #energyiseverything  #thevibetribe #growth


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⁣WHY YOU CANNOT MOVE ON POST BREAKUP ⁣ ⁣ If several months (or even years) have passed and you still have:⁣ 🔻Deep self worth issues (lack of self love)⁣ 🔻Difficulty getting out of bed⁣ 🔻Trouble concentrating ⁣ ⁣ The reason you cannot move on and feel better is because you have deeper unhealed wounds that existed prior to your ex. ⁣ ⁣ It is crucial that you realize this and address it because you will not move on and stay in a negative place emotionally for way longer than necessary. By unhealed issues I mean:⁣ ⁣ 1. You lack self love or struggle with self worth due to societal influences ⁣ 2. You have experienced trauma in your life⁣ ⁣ These two reasons are the most pervasive reasons that keep women stuck in pain.Reflect on what you have experienced in your life and how that may be linked to your current feelings. ⁣ ⁣ Perhaps you had an absent father so your ex leaving from your life mirrors your dad leaving from your life. So your breakup triggered this unhealed trauma. ⁣ ⁣ Society does serious damage to our self worth. We constantly think we have to live up to this certain standard of physical appeal which is super damaging to our psyche. ⁣ ⁣ This societal standard of appearance is imprinted in our partners as well, so they may have pressed a certain expectation of theirs onto us. ⁣ ⁣ The way to heal once and for all is to:⁣ ⁣ ✅Identify life experiences that are linked to your feelings post breakup⁣ ✅Face these unresolved experiences and feelings head on and do the inner work to heal⁣ ⁣ Healing isn't easy, but its always worth it. Send me a DM if you have questions 💜⁣


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I think sometimes people look at my life and think divorced life looks pretty good on me. I go hiking. I go on trips. I go on dates. I am technically “more free” to do fun things. But... What you don’t see is that this sucks so bad i can hardly stand it. Dating is pretty much the worst. Its fun to be flattered. It’s fun to have a new crush. Its exciting. But it’s also the most confusing thing...it’s painful...it’s exhausting...it’s insecurity inducing. Sometimes i just want to throw in the towel. I’ve only been in this new life...about 5 months. It’s kind of like a baby. Feels like way less time...at the same time it feels like it’s been this way forever? I dunno. All i know is today it sucks. And I’m allowing myself to tell you all that and if anyone thinks divorce looks easier than marriage...it’s not. To the majority of my friends who are married...keep trying. Work your freaking ass off for that marriage. I promise the grass isn’t greener on this side. This certainly isn’t a cry for help or meant to be attention seeking. I just get tired of fake crap where everyone is strong and perfect. This is REAL. We are not perfect! Sometimes we feel weak! And sad! We need more real... I will always be over here trying to make the best of it. But some days suck. Today is one of them. #divorcesucks #datingagain #singlemom #lifeishard #realtalk #lonely #anxious #ugh


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Do you agree? . I can’t remember where I saw this or who came up with this quote so I can’t properly cite it. . But...how much does this ring true to you? Do you ever find yourself questioning your loyalty? . I’m sure at some point the thought comes up. . I know for me part of this sentiment is definitely true. And I know what’s it like to be unsuccessful at life. . My relationship probably hit this cross road and at that point that is when I realized that your relationship can really be tested, no matter if you’re married or not. . 7 out of 10 divorces in North America are initiated by the woman. And it begs the question why... . I have my inklings, but I will digress. Because I hope this will spark something in you that is worth looking into. . And if you can’t. Well there’s always my workshop you can come out to. LINK IN BIO. #showmethelove


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In the spirit of full transparency, I post something that seems positive & like I’ve got my grief together, then I spend the next 15 minutes sobbing in my car because I am alone & feel like a burden to literally every person I talk to about this. To any of those people (hopefully you know who you are) - I am an extrovert. It helps me feel better to process externally. If I stop texting or messaging or calling or talking, it’s not because I’m doing good. It’s because I’m retreating & I’m a mess & I think I am a complete burden to you. Just so you know. I may have hope for the future, but I’m still a freaking mess. #divorcesucks


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Schuhe 👠 sind nicht besser als eine Ehe aber dafür halten sie länger.... 😉. . Und meine Schuhe halten immer noch auch wenn diese vom Leben schon etwas gebraucht sind 😘 . #heirat #Scheidung #divorce #divorced #divorcequotes #divorcesupport #divorcecourt #divorcesucks #divorcelife #rozwd #divorzio #развод #skilsmssa #divorcio #skilsmisse #διαζύγιο #echtscheiding #離婚 #离婚 #divrcio #birkenstock #shoesaddict #shoestyle #shoes #shoelovers #zitateundsprüche #ehe #artistsoninstagram#schuhe #schuh


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